The grief journey is NOT life as usual. Everything has changed, except the expectation to 'continuing life as usual'.
Wisdom in grief and mourning usually comes slowly.
Choose to allow patience and learning to integrate in it's own way and it's own time.
The voices along this grief journey may yell out distractions, bottling up thoughts, facade behaviours and cultural misconceptions.
Notice.
Name.
Choose patience and the wisdom that will surface along this pathway.
You have my best.