Perfectionism receives far too many accolades, trophies and medals, as if it it is the gold standard of our acceptance, worthiness and everything magnificent in work and life.
The cost of perfectionism is too high. It will sabotage relationships, physical health, emotional health and intellectual health. Sounds like a devil's bargain to me.
(Thoughts?)
Perfectionism promises more wealth, more connections and more meaning. The small print will tell you that it will rob you of everything dear in your pursuit of it.
Perfectionism wires an enmeshment of mind, body and brain. It colours our perspective and expectations of self and others. Not in a healthy way!
Instead choose the 'some things' that will cascade into more of what matters to the *whole of you* for the long game, the infinite game.
No judgement. Only an acknowledgement that perfectionism may instill an addiction to something that is not worth fighting for. Only an invitation to consider another way.
The neuroscience of leading yourself well, includes noticing and naming some socially acceptable cultural norms, that deplete and rob you of what matters most.
Instead of perfectionism, choose the 'some things' that honour your values and the everydays of your journey.
Lead yourself well.
